One of the wonderful perks of having a wedding is that you’re going to get gifts. Lots of them. But wait – you and your fiancé have been living together for three years, and you already have a toaster, a blender and two different sets of flatware. You really don’t need any more “stuff.” What you want is an amazing honeymoon, romantic nights out on the town or straight-up cash so you can buy the gifts when you’re ready, use it for your house payment, car payment, or wedding bills. But how do you tastefully ask for cash from your traditional-minded wedding guests?

Zankyou
With the Zankyou cash wedding registry, you really can have it all and at just 2.85%, they have the lowest processing fee on the internet. There are no limitations for what you can register for with Zankyou and whatever put on your registry, you receive the cash value of the gifts, giving you the freedom to do exactly what you’d like with the money without getting any slack from your guests. Plus, you can register for those big ticket items like plane tickets or a new bedroom set, and guests can contribute as much or as little as they like. With its easy to use online platform, your guests will actually be happy you’re using the Zankyou registry.

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Zankyou is really like five wedding registries in one convenient package – green registry, honeymoon registry, cash registry, international registry, and charitable registry. Available in 18 countries and 7 languages, it’s the perfect choice if you’re getting married or having guests from abroad. Feeling generous? You can use Zankyou to request charitable donations from wedding guests, which, according to TheWeddingChannel.com, is “hot” for 2012. As an added bonus, Zankyou offers free wedding websites with tons of tools to help you organize your wedding. What better way to share your Zankyou registry than with your Zankyou website? Two birds, one stone!
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Ready to register? Have more questions? Drop them a line at 845-373-6524 or email. Then do yourself and your globetrotter guests a favor and register with Zankyou.com.

Joyce Scardina Becker

Welcome to Part 2 of our guest post from  Joyce from Events of Distinction. She had so much great info on Wedding Planners that we broke it into two posts for you. You can read the first post here. Thanks Joyce!

The term “Wedding Planner” is most often used to describe my occupation, but wedding planners really don’t have a consensus about what to call themselves. Some of the other titles my esteemed colleagues have used include: Consultant, Coordinator, Designer, Director, Producer, Stylist, etc. These differing designations are not just ingenious marketing pitches; they usually reflect a special expertise that the planner possesses.

Photos: Wendy Maclaurin Richardson. Wedding Designer and Planner: Joyce Scardina Becker, Events of Distinction

Types of Wedding Planners.

Here is a general explanation of the different kinds of planners, the services they offer, and what to look for in hiring them:

  • Typically a Wedding Planner or Producer will embrace your style and vision and orchestrate your wedding from start to finish. These professionals will put together the perfect team of wedding service providers for you, and will manage all details of the entire wedding. A Wedding Planner / Producer should have received professional training and a degree in Event Management, Hospitality Management, Hotel and Restaurant Management at a university, or a certificate in Meeting Planning, Special Event Management or Wedding Management from an accredited institution. The Wedding Planner must also be an expert in wedding etiquette, protocol and ethnic customs with the flexibility to understand each couple’s uniqueness. Typically, the Wedding Planner / Producer has been in the event management industry for at least 10 years. Fees can range from $10,000 to $40,000.
  • A Wedding Consultant or Coordinator is appropriate for the wedding couple who want to take a more active hands-on role in planning their own wedding, and is looking for a “coach” to help them along the way. The Consultant or Coordinator will furnish vendor referrals and set up appointments, but will not always be present with you at the all the meetings. The Consultant or Coordinator would also typically schedule the wedding day activities and be on site to manage the wedding. The Wedding Consultant / Coordinator is typically less experienced than the Wedding Planner / Producer and sometimes may not have professional training and credentials from a university or event management program. Fees can range from $2,500 to $10,000.
  • A Wedding Designer, Stylist or Architect is focused on fostering your personal wedding vision. This is for the bride who has complete confidence and trust in hiring an expert who can take the bride’s vision to the next level and create something more spectacular than the bride could envision herself. The Wedding Designer / Stylist/ Architect should have formal training in a relevant field such as Floral Design, Interior Design, Graphic Design or Fashion Design. Fees for Wedding Designers can range from $5,000 to $20,000. Some Wedding Planners / Producers have the proper credentials to also call themselves Wedding Designers and offer both planning and design services.

If you decide to take the DIY route for your wedding, you can always change course and hire a Wedding Planner later if you get into troubled waters.

Several Wedding Coordinators and Wedding Planners even offer “Day Of” service for budget-conscious brides. But let me make this clear – there is no such thing as a “Day Of Planner.” This term is widely misunderstood and misleading, because no Wedding Planner of sound mind, experience and education would simply show up on the day of your wedding and expect everything to flow flawlessly. That’s why the Wedding Industry Professionals Association recommends the use of the term “Wedding Director” for this service. Instead of waiting until the wedding day, the Wedding Director starts a minimum of 30 days before your wedding, and performs the following tasks:

  • Reviews all of your wedding vendors’ contracts
  • Inspects the ceremony and reception site
  • Develops a detailed timeline and draw schematic floor plans for ceremony, cocktails, dinner and dancing. These documents should then be sent to your vendors three weeks before the wedding
  • Prepares a separate, abbreviated wedding party timeline to be sent to parents and all attendants two weeks before the wedding
  • Reconfirms logistics with all wedding service providers after they have received the timeline and floor plans
  • Oversee the wedding rehearsal and be on-site up to 12 hours or more to manage the wedding day activities

Properly providing this service usually requires at least 40 to 60 hours of a Wedding Director’s time, considerably more than just showing up on the day of your wedding.

Photos: Jade Studio Productons. Wedding Designer: Joyce Scardina Becker, Events of Distinction.

Selecting a Wedding Planner or Designer

Check WeddingPlannerLove to find a planner in your area and budget. To find a qualified Wedding Planner or Designer, check out non-profit professional associations such as the Wedding Industry Professionals Association or the International Special Events Society for a list of current members in good standing (many WeddingPlannerLove vendors belong to these organizations!). You might also ask the Catering Departments in the top hotels in your area for a list of Wedding Planners or Designers that they recommend.

For Wedding Planners, here are some questions to ask during a face-to-face interview:

  • Do you have a business license and business insurance?
  • How long have you had your business?
  • What did you do before establishing your business?
  • What is your educational background?
  • Do you have a college degree?
  • If so, what was your major?
  • Have you pursued continuing education in Event Management or Design? If so, where?
  • Do you belong to any professional associations?
  • Have you served on the Board of these associations?
  • How do you find and establish relationships with other vendors?
  • Do you have letters of recommendation from other vendors?
  • What are the steps you take to plan a wedding?
  • How many weddings do you typically plan a year? Describe the services you typically provide for these weddings.
  • Can you work with our budget and create our vision?
  • Can I see a typical staging guide that you have created?  Timeline? Floor plans?
  • When reviewing their portfolio, ask: Who was responsible for conceptualizing the design? Who implemented the design?
  • How do you charge? What does your fee include? Do you receive fees from any of your vendors?
  • Will you be present at our wedding rehearsal and wedding day?
  • Will you provide any additional staff on the wedding day? If so, what are the costs?

While meeting with prospective Wedding Designers, you should carefully examine their portfolios and other materials that demonstrate how they have designed prior weddings. Design elements should be consistently woven through every aspect of the wedding, from the save-the-date card to wedding programs, tablescapes, favors and décor. Confirm what elements of the wedding were actually conceptualized by the Wedding Designer, and not by a graphic artist or florist. Also, since Wedding Designers need to understand your personal preferences in order to design a wedding that reflects your personal tastes, they should also be asking you lots of questions, so they can begin to understand what’s important to you.

Photos: Dennis Desilva, Studio Seven. Wedding Designer and Planner: Joyce Scardina Becker, Events of Distinction.

 

Finally, when interviewing Wedding Planners and Designers, you need to feel that there is good “chemistry.” An effective Wedding Planner or Designer must clearly understand your needs and articulate your vision. And your Wedding Planner will be your new best friend through your wedding day (and hopefully long beyond that), so it is imperative you are comfortable working together, and most importantly having fun!

To learn more about Joyce, visit her site! She’s got enough credentials to write a book—and she has! You can also find her on Facebook and twitter when she is not busy blogging! And of course, you can also find her on WeddingPlannerLove!

Today’s guest post comes to us from Pam Garnett of Altared Visions. Thanks, Pam!

For most people, their wedding day is the first time in their life they’ve ever been in front of a professional photographer’s camera lens. This can be some scary stuff, especially if you’re camera shy or perhaps a bit awkward in photographs normally. I am definitely in the latter category, by the way. If you’ve done your homework and selected a great wedding photographer (you are checking out WeddingPhotoLove, after all!), I give you full permission to relax!  Repeat after me: “I am in good hands.” Feel better? Good. I’m going to make you feel even more at ease by giving you a few things to expect from your photographer on your wedding day.

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Professionalism, Promptness & “What on Earth is She Doing?”

Professionalism is a given if you’ve hired someone carefully based on their work, passion and reputation. Your photographer(s) should of course be polite and friendly as well as arrive on time and dressed appropriately. You’ll find that many wedding photographers show up a bit early to “location scout.” My partner and I call location scouting “light hunting” and may or may or may not converse with each other exclusively in a Steve Irwin accent while doing so. You will find a lot of photographers to be a little odd, but ultimately harmless. You may glance out your window and find your photographer laying on the grass or walking in circle with an outstretch palm. Perhaps you’ll begin to fret thinking the competent professional you hired is on drugs, but it’s more likely they’re checking angles and the way the light falls on their hand. In fact, I use this hand trick often. I’m sure it looks very weird.  You may be asked to move closer to a window for your make up touch ups or other “getting ready” shots, and don’t be alarmed if you see your photographer cleaning up around the hotel room, we’re just staging the scene and lighting it so everything looks the best it can.  Again, you are in good hands!

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Direction & Striking a Pose.

A photographer’s ability to direct a subject is just behind light hunting on the important skills list. Most couples are not models or celebrities and need some gentle direction while being photographed to feel at ease and make great photos. Your photographer may have you act out gestures, walk together holding hands or pose you in that perfect light they found light hunting. You should also expect your photographer to fine tune poses by asking you to make small adjustments such as “drop that shoulder” or “lift your chin.” There is a whole science behind posing, just know that your photographer is making you look fabulous with these little tweaks! Some poses may feel unnatural, but trust us…you will look great! Zach and Jody Gray, amazing wedding photographers from Nashville, TN like to say “feels weird, looks good!
If you’re confused by your photographer’s direction, ask them to physically show you what they mean so that you can mirror them. (Note: Some photographers take a very hands-on approach so if that sort of thing gives you the creeps, be sure to let them know!)  We find our couples are more relaxed with us demonstrating instead of dictating poses and usually a couple seeing James in a pigeon toe stance gets me some great natural laughing photos. You can’t take yourself too seriously in this industry!

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A Note on “Uncle Bobs.”

For those new to the term “Uncle Bob”, that is the probably slightly impolite way we wedding photographers refer to relatives of the bride who bring their own camera to the wedding and photograph over our shoulder. The trouble with this seemingly harmless uncle or aunt shooting along with the photographer is, among other things, no one is sure where to look or who to take direction from. This leaves you with a lovely group photo of your family and only half of them are looking at the camera. This is no good and it will certainly affect your final images as well as your professional’s concentration, so we may ask them to stop shooting or wait for us to finish first. I’ve found asking relatives to allow me my shot first and standing aside for them after makes everyone happy.

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The Reception: Forget about it!

Expect to mostly forget about your photographer at your reception, in fact you should forget about your photographer at your reception! Your hard work is done; it’s time to cut loose! Unlike the beginning of the day’s in-your-face formals, the reception presents the photographer with a photojournalistic challenge in that they must hang back and catch natural, candid moments. Rather than pester you, the savvy photographer will seek out the maître’d and DJ/band immediately upon arrival to find out all they need to know without ever having to disrupt your celebrations. My partner and I alternate following our couple and shooting crowd reactions and dancing. The best reception photos are often ones taken while you’re unaware you’re being photographed in the first place, so forget about us and have a great time!

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Lastly, The Law of Photobooths.

If you have one, we will use it. It’s like a moth to a bug zapper…this is immutable science and cannot be helped.  We apologize in advance.

Thank you Pam! I love your advice and your humor. Check out Altared Visions on WeddingPhotoLove.

Joyce Scardina Becker

WeddingPlannerLove’s very own Events of Distinction brings us today’s guest post which is two part series. We’ll feature Part 2 on Thursday! Thank you Joyce Scardina Becker, CMP for your post for our planning brides!

With a myriad of details to handle, planning a wedding can be very time-consuming for engaged couples, and spare time is often in short supply for brides and grooms who are busy establishing professional careers or attending school.

You should consider hiring a Wedding Planner if:

  • You don’t have at least 12 hours a week to devote to planning
  • You’re having a destination wedding
  • Your idea of being creative is copying a wedding that you saw in print or online
  • You have previously hosted parties where you spent the entire evening in your kitchen

Aside from saving you that precious element of time, there is another fundamental reason why Wedding Planners can be a tremendous benefit to you – they are experts at what they do. The more complex the details of your wedding are, the greater the skills that are required to implement these details flawlessly.  So, for the same reasons that many people hire professional accountants to do their taxes, many couples also hire professional planners to do their weddings.  The only difference is that weddings are much more fun than taxes!

Photos:  Sherman Chu. Wedding Designer and Planner: Joyce Scardina Becker, Events of Distinction.

What a Wedding Planner Can Do for You

Successful planning and execution of a wedding requires an understanding of many disciplines –including audio-visual, budgeting and financial analysis, food and beverage, design, entertainment, flowers, graphic design and methods of printing, hospitality law and contracts, lighting, music, photography, transportation, videography and wedding cakes. What separates the pros from the novices is a solid track record of producing hundreds of weddings, maintaining quality relationships with many wedding service providers and keeping current with the latest trends. This experience gives the Wedding Planner the foundational knowledge to effectively assist you with the research, design, planning and execution of your wedding, which includes the following specific tasks:

  • Developing a detailed budget for your wedding
  • Selecting the most suitable site(s) for your celebration
  • Recommending appropriate vendors that fit with your taste and budget
  • Scheduling appointments with vendors
  • Performing cost analyses of vendor proposals
  • Effectively negotiating contracts through an understanding of hospitality law
  • Organizing the planning process in a logical fashion
  • Understanding the flow of a wedding, and developing a detailed timeline for your wedding day, which enables the ceremony, cocktails and reception to run smoothly
  • Producing floor plans drawn to scale
  • Providing on-site management for your wedding day – overseeing all activities to ensure a flawless execution

To learn more about Joyce, visit her site! She’s got enough credentials to write a book—and she has! You can also find her on Facebook and twitter when she is not busy blogging! And of course, you can also find her on WeddingPlannerLove!

Thank you to Candice & Alison Luxury Weddings for today’s guest post! These ladies did a great job summing up what you should expect from your planner!

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A good planner should be on top of all the little details the go into making every wedding special. There are many elements that require scheduling, delivery, placement and so on, therefore your planner should strategize on how best to implement everything as seamlessly as possible.

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They should be aware of the bride and grooms schedule and keep them posted on necessary updates for example, when the limo has arrived, when guests start to arrive for cocktail hour etc. They should be present but behind the scenes for the duration of the wedding, quietly providing guests with necessary cues throughout the night.

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They should also ensure key suppliers such as photographers, band members, caterers etc. are fulfilling the terms of their agreement and not otherwise distracted. Lastly a good planner should ensure the space is left the same way it was found.

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They should follow up with the couple after the wedding to provide them with anything that was left behind as well as to thank them and reminisce about all of the wonderful memories that were created.

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Thank you ladies for a short, yet to-the-point guest post! Visit Candice & Alison on WeddingPlannerLove.

Amber over at Beyond Events Atlanta has such a great post for us today! I can’t even count the toasts I’ve heard that I should NOT have heard. Take these tips and tell all your friends who are going to be toasting at a wedding in the near future. :)

Being asked to be a part of someone’s wedding is an honor and privilege. Along with being part of the wedding party can also come the responsibility of giving a toast to the happy couple. Over the years I have heard hundreds of toasts, some beautiful, others funny, a few that were boring and a handful that were down right disasters.  In order to give a toast that you’re proud of and that others enjoy follow these five tips.

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1. Remember Your Audience.

For a wedding you’ll be speaking in front of children, grandparents and possible friends from church. Your speech should be tailored to the people hearing it. This means no cussing, no sexual innuendo, nothing embarrassing about the bride and groom, and no telling stories that involves being drunk, wild college days or ex’s.

2. Keep It Brief.

The length of your speech should be between 2- 6 minutes.  This is your opportunity to say a few short words about the bride and groom, if it goes on for too long people lose interest. It’s best to congratulate them and resume celebrating.

3. Be Prepared.

Although it’s not necessary to have the toast written down word for word, it’s a good idea to have a rough idea of what you’d like to say. One thing that’s often helpful is to use a small notecard to write down words or phrases to remind you of the important points you want to make.

4. Practice.

Deliver your speech in front of a small crowd a few times before the wedding. It’s even better if it is for people that won’t be attending. This serves two purposes. First, when you do the trial run(s) you get to gage people’s reactions or get feedback and second, you get to practice. By getting comfortable with what you have to say you’re less likely to get nervous, stutter or forget what you’re going to say.

5. Use Humor at Your Own Risk.

Many times I’ve heard someone giving a toast attempt to be funny only to be met with silence. This is awkward and a little painful for both the speaker and the listeners. It is best to use humor only if you’re naturally funny (according to other people) or you have practiced in front of others and be told your toast is funny.

When given the opportunity to make a speech at a friend or family member’s wedding give what you have to say real thought and consideration, it will be remembered for years to come, for better or worse. Following these guidelines will help you make a toast that is comfortable, entertaining and memorable for the right reasons!

Today’s guest post comes to us from Robert London Wedding Photography. Such great advice, thanks for sharing, Robert. :)

When your wedding day comes, it will be so overwhelming that your memory of the day may be a bit unfocused. The beautiful flowers you chose, the gorgeous dress (that you agonized over), the venue and table settings, all your friends dancing, even your hairstyle is a moment that you created and wish to cherish. Unfortunately it is just one day and it goes by so fast. This is why the photographer will be the one hire you make that is so important, not only will they be with you a good deal of time on this most important day but they are the ones who shall capture all those details that you have been thinking about for the past six months or more!

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To make sure you achieve more than just pretty pictures I have created a list to help you weed through all the marketing garbage and mediocre photographers that may lose those memories – follow this guide so that all your memories will last forever.

1. First thing, do a little research, and become familiar with the different styles of wedding photography.

No two photographers would come out with the same images, but wedding photography broadly breaks down to three types, traditional or classic and photojournalistic (everyone was traditional 20 years ago). A traditional photographer is someone who is very involved in the day, producing mostly posed shots and will spend time arranging both people and details to look a certain way. A classic, or “balanced” photographer is one who combines aspects of both. The last type is photo journalistic, think of them as reality TV photographers they will document what happens seldom or never asking you to pose. So as you are looking through friend’s albums or magazines think of these styles, decide which you prefer and start looking for photographers who can fulfill that need, also if you hire someone with a balanced approach you should tell them which style you prefer.

2. At least have a general idea of your budget.

Pricing can vary considerable, and you do not want to waste your time with someone who is not within your reach. On the other side if the price is too good to be true, it is most likely someone who is not a real professional and you would be taking a big chance. I have a golden rule about this “cost is something that can usually be negotiated, quality cannot.”

 

3. Now you have lots of knowledge but how do you find the right person?

The first place to start is friends. They have already gone down this road and they might recommend their photographer or give you the name of the person they should have hired. If you do a search on the internet PLEASE go past the first page and more, the first page will be filled with larger firms with big marketing dollars behind them. Vendors can also be a good resource but be warned the venue’s preferred list is a source of advertising revenue for them and usually nothing more. A great source to find the perfect photographer is WeddingPhotoLove!

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4. Narrow your choices down from the different websites but remember you are not hiring a web designer so do not go with someone just because you love their website.

Quality is sometimes hard to define in qualitative terms, but look for the story behind each image, one photo should make you want to see another. Finally make sure the essence of each wedding is coming through, that the photographer’s style is not overwhelming.

5. References are important and it is not a bad idea to call them but be warned the photographer is only providing the good ones.

Be ready with specific questions to ask, not just do you recommend them, one effective question I like is “did your guests like him and did he handle your family’s request well?” But, references are only one piece of the puzzle in the web 2.0 world we have today, now we have reviews on wedding websites and local vendor sites such as Yelp or Google Places. Also just search for the name, you will surprised what will come up good and bad.

6. Make sure they are not just a “weekend warrior” you want a professional photographer, someone who is doing this as their sole living.

Photography in this digital world is constantly changing, and you need someone who is dedicated to keeping themselves informed of the latest technologies and capabilities, this will ensure that you not only receive the best quality but also the most choices of products and services.

7. This is very important, ask the photographer do you shoot jpeg or raw?

If they say film move on,  if they are not willing to meet the learning curve, then what else are they not learning? To make sure they shoot in the raw format ask that you receive a copy of all the final raw files (put it in the contract). On the topic of files, are the jpegs and proofs watermarked or do you receive full size files ready to print? Many studios charge significantly extra for the raw files and/or non watermarked jpegs.

Editors note: Most photographers don’t give RAW files out since they’re unedited and can often look drastically different (and less professional) than the finished files. We don’t want to change our guest article, but keep in mind that releasing RAW files is rare and in most cases, it’s not necessary to get the originals, since you want the beautiful, finished images instead.

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8. Ask to view samples of complete weddings and ask questions about that wedding.

Many studios substitute wedding images for staffs who are beginning, also this way you will get a feel for how they handle the stress of a complete day. I have also seen photographers who can create a wonderful “glamor” shot of the bride, one that is ready for a magazine but the rest of the wedding is very poor – just because you are a good photographer does not make one a good wedding photographer.

9. What is in the package?

You want no surprises, and you want to confirm that the packages are equal when comparing from one photographer to another. I mentioned the files earlier, but other concerns are how many hours of coverage, if you are having a large wedding you may need two photographers, how many proofs do you receive, will all the images be given to me and how, on a DVD, flashcard, downloadable, how long until I receive the images? Do not forget the album! A subject on its own which I discuss here: How to Create a Wedding Album but make sure they have available what you want, there are so many options these days and quality varies GREATLY.

10. And finally, we have talked about the packages, quality, and price now what is most important is the relationship you feel with the photographer.

Remember, a photographer who frames everything perfectly, makes sure everyone is in focus, and gets every shot on your list may seem like a great photographer–however, if no one likes him/her that will show in the pictures. Even the most unobtrusive photographer still has a significant presence at your wedding; make sure that person is a guest you would invite.
I hope this list has been informative and will give you confidence in your choice of wedding photography, I discuss this subject in greater depth along with other related wedding articles on my website Robert London Photography

Robert London Photography WeddingPhotoLoveThank you Robert! You can check his profile out on WeddingPhotoLove!

A big thank you to Felicia Events for today’s guest post! If you are trying to decide whether or not to hire a planner, then this post is for you!

Photography by Monique

Photography by Monique

 

Why hire a Professional Wedding Planner? Imagine an orchestra without a conductor! A wedding planner is the one voice that makes sure all lines of communication are all in order. A Professional Wedding Coordinator is the leader of the team and makes sure every detail is taken care of from the very beginning to the end.

Planning a wedding can become a whole new undertaking within itself and with a busy schedule it can become overwhelming. There are wedding planners out there that do not cost astronomical amounts. Most wedding planners do offer different levels of wedding coordination. This is a luxury that is affordable because of the different levels of wedding planning offered. Hiring a Professional Bridal Consultant will give peace of mind. The vendors and venues will even appreciate a planner has been hired. Coordination and communication is a good recipe to a stress free wedding.

Photography by Monique

Photography by Monique

 

Make sure while searching for a Professional Bridal Consultant that the person is knowledgeable in budget planning, negotiate contracts, strategy planning to go along with the logistics for the wedding day. The list is endless of what a Professional Bridal Consultant can do. Check the planners’ experience, education and ask to see a portfolio. Be aware of prices and the average pricing within the area. All wedding planners start somewhere in their career but make sure if they can handle the expectations for the wedding day. Don’t just pick someone because of the price; make sure there is a common ground of understanding. Interview the bridal consultant because this is a business relationship that will be at least 8 months to handle a personal vision for the wedding day.

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Take a look at WeddingPlannerLove or The Association of Bridal Consultants for bridal consultants in your area. An educated bridal consultant in the industry is highly recommended. These bridal consultants strive to better their knowledge in the wedding industry.
Gambling is for the casino but not for your wedding day, be sure to hire a Professional Wedding Planner and don’t skimp on experience.

Planning an outdoor wedding? You’re gonna want to read this, trust me. Jessica from Experience Events did a FABULOUS job putting together this post today.

A wedding by the beach, cocktails in the garden, pictures by the barn all sound very romantic. Until it rains. But don’t panic, there are a few simple things you can do to ensure all is as magical as it should be on that most special day.  None of which include relying on the “rain is good luck” theory.
First, IF you are planning a wedding that could be impacted by inclement weather make a plan. Not just a rain plan, but a great rain plan! Take the time to really assess the best possible solution to a rainy day. Perhaps it’s renting a second location as backup, putting a reserve on a tent for the ceremony or even a covered walkway. Whatever it is, think about well in advance and come up with a solution that you love.

Because it could be raining.  On your wedding day.  (I know, ugh.)

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Photo by Eric Limon Photography

My advice for those facing a rainy wedding day is simple.

  1. Accept It and Move On. Making “the rain call” can be an exhausting process full of lots of back and forth phone calls, watching the Doppler and rearranging the wedding setups over and over. If it is going to be rainy and make the wedding less than what it could or should be, skip the outside option and move on (and in!)
  2. Look at the Positive. Cloudy days make for amazing photographs and that is something to be happy about. Also I find that when brought inside weddings become more intimate, more connected.
  3. Have Fun with It. Bring your pink wellies, do a “first look” with an umbrella. A few puddles make for sweet pictures and great memories especially if you are smiling through it all.

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Photo by Casey Connell Photography

 

As I tell our brides, the goal is to have an excellent Rain Plan and never need it-but if nothing else, rain or shine it is going to be one of the best days of your life so enjoy it!

Wow, thank you so much for this post Jessica. Maybe rain isn’t so bad after all. Visit Experience Events on WeddingPlannerLove to learn more about today’s guest writer. :)

Aurora Meneghello Productions (also a part of Locally Grown Weddings) put together a great post for us today. It’s a double dose of  a shot list and tips. :)

 

It is the job of your wedding photographer to create a shot list for your big day. That’s why you are hiring them! However, it’s good to understand what your photographer will want to cover and how you can help her get the best pictures on your wedding day.

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Here’s a list of moments your wedding photographer will probably cover:

  • Bride Getting Ready
  • Groom Getting Ready
  • The First Look (if bride and groom are seeing each other before the
  • ceremony)
  • Ceremony
  • Posed Family Photos
  • Wedding Party Photos
  • Reception
  • Escort Cards and other Details
  • Wedding Cake
  • Toasts
  • First Dance
  • Cake Cutting
  • Bouquet Toss/Garter
  • Guests Dancing

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It’s very important to work with your wedding photographer to make sure your wedding is
captured in all its glory.

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Here are some tips from my experience working on big and small weddings:

1. Hire a professional wedding photographer. Wedding photography is all about
knowing what is going to happen. The more weddings your photographer has worked
on, the more they’ll be familiar with the general way the event unfolds and he/she will
be able to prepare for each moment before it happens. They will also need to work fast
as there’s no time to learn on the job. A professional wedding photographer will be
familiar with their equipment, will be able to shoot in different lighting conditions
and will know how to maximize the time given to them. Practice makes perfect!

2. Talk to your photographer: even if your wedding pro has worked on hundreds of weddings, your wedding is unique. Make sure to let them know what elements you have incorporated in your wedding. For example, all photographers will take photos of your wedding dress, shoes, jewelry and rings. But let’s say you are wearing a pair
of earrings that your grandmother wore at her wedding. Your photographer might
want to spend some extra time photographing them and/or thinking of creative ways
to convey their emotional importance.

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3. Choose a planner who is a good communicator. If you are working with a planner or Day Of Coordinator, make sure to be clear about how much communication they will have with the photographer. The photographer should have a very specific timeline and be prepped on the flow of the event. If your planner is not going to communicate directly and timely with your photographer, you will have to do it. Make sure your team is going to work together.

4. Choose a photographer whose style you like: some couples like fun photos and lots of candid photos, other couples like a more romantic feel and lots of details. We often think of photographers as documenting a wedding, but even the purest photojournalist has a special way of seeing the world. Once you have the right photographer, let them know what you like. I always spend time with couples I work with to find out what’s important to them. For example, some couples are very much into family photos, some love detail shots, some want a picture of their high school friends who flew into town from far away. Make sure to let your photographer know what you love. This
way you can collaborate on the part of the shot list that is unique to your wedding.

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